I wanted to share a quote I read on Rosa Say’s blog the other day.
“You can’t talk yourself out of a problem that you behaved yourself into.”
I’ve been trying to make this point with my campers all summer. Many of them seem to believe that a simple “I’m sorry” will fix everything they do, regardless of what it has happened. They also believe that they’re entitled to do whatever they want without any repercussions.
Everything we do affects somebody, even if that somebody is just ourselves. It takes a lot of courage to step up and say, “Yes, I screwed this up, and I’m going to fix it by correcting my poor decision/action.” But it is complete and utter foolishness (and a real sign of the times) to expect to make poor choices and then expect to just say a couple of words and make everything all right. We have to choose to change the behavior that put us in that position to begin with.
It’s about personal responsibility, and when you can make better choices, people respond better to you.






